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Adventures of a Modern Day, Middle-Aged Hero, on the Glory Road(to family security)

5.19.2013

Know when to hold 'em, when to fold 'em, and when to walk away.

Masochism: Not deferring to anyone one source, the primary definition of masochism usually refers to a sexual...deviancy that revolves around the enjoyment of pain/humiliation.  There are however secondary and tertiary definitions that come down to 'A willingness or tendency to subject oneself to unpleasant or trying experiences.'  While I don't meet the primary definition, you'd think the less common usage of the word was created just for me.

Once upon a time, WAY back at the beginning of the year, we bought a house.  Now...without going painfully into specifics, the house we settled for decided we could be satisfied with was below our price range.  Not that I play 'keeping up with the Jones's' but our house has a value in the range of 50-70% of those lived in by my peer group.  It's older, smaller, and lacks granite and marble.  There is only a 1 car garage instead of the three that seem standard on newer homes.  However...it is a home, and I am happy with it.  Buying this particular house in this price range was a very deliberate and calculated decision by my wife and I to leave money available for other things.

One of those things being the eventual purchase of land.  By eventual, I think we meant a year or two at least, to work on a budget and make sure the house we bought it all squared away.  However, because I meet that second definition of Masochism, I spend time each week(several times a week) on different real estate sites.  Of course, just last week, something caught my eye.  A mostly finished cabin, with a septic tank, flush toilet, partially drilled well...on 30 acres.  The asking price was roughly 60K, a number when added to the value of my house would still put me very low in the band of houses owned by my co-workers.  So...I wanted to go look closer, and earlier in the week, I declared that when I had wanted for my birthday was taking a road trip to this cabin, located about 1.7 hours west of here, outside the town of Naches.

 
Very cute, no?   At 198 square feet with a sleeping loft, certainly big enough for weekend usage for a family of 4.  Heck....my wife came right home and started playing on pinterest looking at ideas to maximize usage of small spaces.  The flush toilet and shower are in the little add on room on the right, although with the well not being complete, you need to fill the tank up by hand after each flush...which is still better than an outhouse.  You can't see it from the above picture, but the other 3 corners have rain barrels to try to hold on to what moisture they do get up there. 
 
 


That's the backyard.  Sigh. 

There were many negatives...not negatives, but things that would require effort(and money) on our part.  The floor wasn't finished.  At some point, what looks like a bullet punched through a window...both worrisome on its own, but also leaving a hole big enough that many bugs had moved in, and potentially mice, because the back corner of the loft was covered in droppings.  The bathroom needed drywall(and potentially new insulation...my wife was worried rodents might be in the insulation), and the whole place needed painting inside.

Yeah...that's a long list...but this is the view outside the front of the cabin.

 
Then there was the well.  Yes, there are rain barrels, and you can bring water in...but eventually, a working well would be nice.  The real estate agent said that the well had been drilled to 1000 feet, and might need to go another 500 to 1000 to hit water.  Getting to the property involves riding up a few (nicely maintained) private roads, which raises a few easement type questions.  198 square feet might not be bad for the occasional weekend, but at less than 2 hours door to door, we would be using this more than just the occasional weekend. 
 
 
Of course, I could walk out of the crowded cabin to this:


We left the cabin with a lot to think and talk about.  My wife liked it.  I liked the view.  I said I would call the agent on Monday to ask some more questions.  Something bothered me though.  Trees.  The lack there of.  Yes...some of the sage has a greenish tint...but it's not the same.  One reason I was walking off with the girls in one of the pictures was to take a look down in the draw behind the cabin.  If it has even a few scraggly pines, I might feel different...but I need trees. 

We also might need a new computer.  Plus a potential transmission in my F-150.  Finally, there is the Disney trip we have told the girls we are taking 'someday'.  The land and view are nice, and I KNOW elk and mulies run through that property to abuse the farmers down below.  But...my wife and I do want land...eventually.  This is potentially a good deal for someone...it's just not the right deal for us right now.  That doesn't mean I won't check the computer every week or so to see if it has sold yet.  Because, well...masochism.

Boy, that view. 

5.18.2013

Watching this time

My older daughter is taking part in this Girls on the Run program through our local YMCA.  As part of that program, they run a 5K about twice a year.  Parents are encouraged to run with the kids.  My wife did the first one, and I did the one last November, meaning it was my wife's turn again., so her and my older daughter were out the door bright and early for that this morning, leaving me and my younger daughter to follow on behind later to do some cheering.

My younger daughter takes more after my wife than me when it comes to waking up...'Just 5 more minutes', as opposed to my older one, who we had to give and alarm clock MANY years ago so she wouldn't leave the bedroom before 7.  Still I was able to get her out the door eventually, and on our way in time to see my wife and older daughter off at the starting line.


After that, we had some time to kill before meeting the weary runners for breakfast.  As we sat at one traffic light, my daughter, who has gotten quite used to the newer Mazda, says to me 'Daddy, I kind of miss riding in the Subaru.  It shakes so much at a stop sign it's just like those fancy massaging chairs at the furniture store!' 

Might be time for a tune-up...or to earn some spare cash driving people around town, with some relaxing music and aroma therapy, selling Massage's on the Go. 

5.17.2013

Getting old sucks.

So, there I was in the bathroom this morning.  The old roll of TP was all used up, so I took off the old roll and threw it away.  Because it was my birthday(and I was feeling lazy) I took a new roll out from under the sink and placed it on the counter, but didn't actually place it on the roll holder.

For this reason, I failed to notice I had thrown the spring-loaded bar that actually holds the TP in place away with the old roll.  Like, really away because it was trash day, so I brought the full bathroom trashbag directly out to the curb before realizing what my laziness had lead too.

The day got better...

Oh, you shouldn't have!

Today is my birthday.  Now...I'm sure at some point there will be some kind of rambling brought forth on this site from myself about, that will go from melancholy about passing from my mid 30's to late 30's to the joy I feel over having my own particular life.  That's not happening right now. 

Instead, I share with you the pictures of the decorating I woke to find my cats had been doing all night for me! 


Historical evidence would lead me to believe that the grey one was mostly responsible for this. 

 
They didn't just limit their activities to upstairs either.  Here sits Reuben, still unsure after 4 months if he will fit through the pet door into the room where the food and litter are kept.
 


I mean...that is some motivation.  That is at least 8 trips up and down the stairs. 

Cleaning up things like this is the true reason I had kids...just give them some scissors and get out of the way. 

5.16.2013

House of Cards

A few weeks ago, my wife and I started watching the Made for Netflix series, House of Cards.  We had heard highly positive things about it, and decided to give it a try, despite it's 'Made for Netflix' provenance sounding less than enticing.

With the qualification that we are only 7 episodes in to a 13 episode series...we love it so far.  I have to say...if it wasn't for the fact that it starred Kevin 'John Doe by Choice/Keyser Soze' Spacey, we might not have given it a try.  It's only right that he makes the series(so far).

Basically, Kevin Spacey plays the House Majority Whip, who is spurned by the newly elected president, who had said he would make Mr. Spacey's character the Secretary of State in exchange for his support during the election.  Well, hell has no fury like a woman(or a politician) scorned.  Mr. Spacey, as Congressman Frank Underwood, sets out getting his revenge on the new Secretary of State, White House Chief of Staff, President, and anyone else he has to break to get what he wants.

Over half way through the series, I have NO idea how it is going to end.  We've seen Frank use and dispose of people like tissue paper.  We've seen him take a young reporter under his wing to give him a controllable voice in the media.  We've seen the seedy underbelly of Washington D.C....and that is what makes me sad watching this series.

I know politics is ugly, and deals have to be made, and power brokered...this series just does such a good job make it look DIRTY.  Usually when my wife and find a netflix series we like, we cruise through it, watching multiple episodes in a night.  Heck, we watched 7 seasons of 'Buffy' in right around 3 weeks.  'House of Cards' is different.  It's soooooo intense we can only watch one, maybe 2 episodes a week.

Not cheating and reading ahead is one of the hardest things I have ever done.  I'm the type of guy who seeks out spoilers for upcoming movies, so I have the constant urge to check wikipedia to find out how the series will end, because I really have NO IDEA. 

It's the series own excellence that keeps from doing so...I don't want to ruin the experience.

5.15.2013

Stopped and bought some stakes on the way home, just in case...

Bad things start this way...

Rabid bat bites Pasco baby

I know they say it's 'just rabies'....but the papers say a lot of things that turn out not to be true.  I'm picking up some ash dowels and garlic just in case we start seeing a lot of folks that work in Pasco calling in sick. 

5.13.2013

You have learned, Grasshopper.

Applications for special hunts are due May 22nd, and since hunting is something I enjoy, I don't wait until the last minute.  The only negative with that is that it means I get all of my tags around Mid-May, at which point I put them someplace safe.  That also means that when I need the tags in Mid-September, I most likely will have forgotten the safe place I put them.

Many is the night before deer season opens that my wife is sitting on the couch, watching me run around with my hair on fire, going through the same 4 drawers on our big hutch 6 times looking for my tags. 

Not this year...because I'm blogging about it.  Now, the first week of September I can just look here to remind myself that I put all my tags in the top shelf in the gun cabinet. 

Until I move them when I'm reorganizing things in July, and I forget update the blog.